Write a wedding speech
you'll be proud to give.
Answer four simple questions. Toastly shapes your memories into a beautifully structured toast — then helps you deliver it without the shakes.
Best Man
Land the jokes, honor the bond, and keep it classy in front of grandma.
Maid of Honor
Heartfelt, funny, and unmistakably you — without the blank-page panic.
Parent of the Couple
A graceful welcome and blessing that holds the whole room.
Every great toast follows four beats.
We don't just spit out words — we arrange your real memories into the arc that lands every time.
The Hook
An opening line that earns the room's attention in eight seconds.
The Story
Your favorite memory, told with the detail that makes people feel it.
The Turn
Where the laugh becomes a lump in the throat — the emotional pivot.
The Blessing
A raise of the glass that gives everyone permission to cheer.
How to write a maid of honor speech
Toastly answers the question you typed into Google — and then writes the speech for you.
How long should a wedding speech be? +
Aim for 2–3 minutes — roughly 300–450 spoken words. Toastly's length presets map directly to speaking time so you never run long.
What if I'm not funny or a good writer? +
That's exactly who this is for. You bring the memories; we bring the structure, the rhythm, and a tone slider that dials humor up or down for you.
How do I avoid an awkward or risky joke? +
The Roast Meter has built-in guardrails. Push it toward "playful" and we keep every joke warm, inclusive, and grandma-safe.
How do I remember it on the day? +
Use the line-by-line Teleprompter to rehearse, then export printable cue cards to hold while you speak.
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Set the tone of your toast
These three dials shape how your speech feels. You can change them and regenerate anytime.
My speeches
Every toast you've written, with who it was for and how it's coming along.
Unlock your finished speech and everything you need to deliver it.
- ✓ Full speech — every beat, fully written
- ✓ Unlimited edits & tone regenerations
- ✓ Line-by-line teleprompter mode
- ✓ Printable cue-card export (PDF)
- ✓ Lifetime access to this speech
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Your cue cards
Four cards, one per beat — just the cues, so you stay present and make eye contact.